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Master your masturbation_Part 2

If you've got the time and you're feeling up for some more experimentation or new ways to master your masturbation, this post is for you.

First, change your mindset a bit and try going solo without worrying too much about reaching orgasm. That way, you can focus on discovering what feels good. Explore different erogenous zones and sensations: use your fingers, hands, muscles, body, and mind. Incorporate toys or vibrators, change up the pace and pressure, and switch up positions and locations. If your train hits the station, wonderful. If not, You're still getting all the good stuff from masturbation so relax and just enjoy the ride.

Use your second hands

Your second hand can play a  vital role in elevating your sensession when you work your way toward orgasm or just extend your possibilities and maximize your pleasure, so Instead of leaving it on the bench, invite her to join the game…

Feel yourself

Use your other hand to work your nipples, tap your neck, run it up and down your inner thighs or stroke any other part of your body that craves to be touched for a more exciting experience

Expose your clit

Engage your other hand to elevate your arousal by gently pulling back with your fingers the hood covering your clit. This increased exposure can exceed the bloodstream and amplify stronger sensations and intensify pleasure. 

In and out

Try to achieve a blended orgasm on your own. Use one hand to stimulate your clitoris while you use your other hand stimulating the entrance of your vagina or holding sex toy on your G-Spot. Slowly, it’ll build to a powerful sensation 

Hold Your Phone

If you're watching porn or sexting, you've got your other hand to be holding up your phone or free to scroll for more inspiration while you're working towards that big O

Masturbation Positions

there’s really no such thing as a “best position” — it’s all down to personal preference and what you feel comfortable doing.

Many women naturally lie on their backs for some self-pleasure. It is great and definitely comfortable and efficient. Masturbating on your back allows your muscles to relax so you can easily reach your clitoris, vulva, perineum, or breasts. Try placing your feet on the bed and your knees in the air, or simply spread your thighs to better position your pelvic muscles for some indulgent orgasms.

However, changing up your habits with new positions every once in a while can be a nice way to experience something new. Shifting your attention away from aiming for an orgasm and just playing with yourself can also open up a whole new world to explore and experiment with your body in a way that’s more chill and creative. It’s like going on a trip without a set endpoint.

Get on all fours

Try getting on all fours or kneeling as if you were riding over your partner. Leaning backward engages your core and pulls your pelvic area slightly tighter, amplifying sensations in the genitals. Lower your upper body onto the mattress for easy access to anal play or penetration with fingers, a dildo, or vibrator. For extra comfort and increased friction, you can perch yourself on top of a few pillows.

Face down

Face down is a popular position because the added body weight creates more friction against the clitoris, heightening sensation. Start by rubbing your bare pubic bone and clit against your hand, or your favorite vibe tucked underneath you. Your body weight adds just the right friction, and rocking back and forth is a super stimulating way to get that clit buzzing fast. This position also moves your hips in a way that is good for your lower back. If you deal with back pain, popping a pillow or two under your belly and hips can give you some extra support.

Cowgirl position

To get into it, stand with your knees on your bed (or wherever you prefer) and put something soft between your thighs, like a pillow or cushion. Then, place your hand or the cushion under your hips and rock back and forth. You can also move your hips in circles if you want. This position is perfect for stimulating your clit and both inner and outer labia. You can also try it without the cushion and use a dildo or vibrator to sit on instead. And don’t forget, you can try it facing the other way or horizontally too.

Shower time 

Shower/bath time is an excellent time for some pleasure. You have your privacy, the warm water flow, the sensual scents of the soaps, and... yes, you’re already naked and touching yourself, anyway. Prepare a waterproof toy, or simply direct the shower stream towards your clit with gentle movements from side to side or up and down, just the way you like to pleasure yourself and at the intensity of flow you prefer.

Try a Little Squeeze

Next time you’re touching yourself, try flexing your muscles a bit. 

Because so many parts of your body are interconnected with fibers and nerves, squeezing different muscles as you masturbate can enhance sensations, add pressure, or pull against the genital region in ways that can be quite surprising.

The pelvic floor muscles can have a powerful effect upon sexual pleasure. They’re the same ones you squeeze when you’re peeing in order to stop the flow of urine. Try to squeeze in the same way while you touch yourself; you should feel a tightening, lifting sensation inside your vagina. Another way to activate those pelvic muscles for a stronger sensation is to move your pelvis inward and upward towards your chest.

You can also try tensing the muscles that make your toes curl, clenching your fists or butt, or stretching your legs out. Experimenting with different muscle movements can add a new twist to your solo sex.. It might feel good to hold the squeeze, or to clench and release in a rhythm.

Get under the covers

Lots of women like to masturbate lying on their back in bed, but what sets it apart from porn is that you've got the covers keeping you cozy. Some people really dig feeling warm and cozy, so having your head under the sheets can be a real treat.

Fantasy and imagination 

Many women find the most exciting part of masturbating to be the sexually stimulating fantasies they engage in.

Your brain is a powerful tool. When you’re with your partner, it doesn’t always have to be him in your mind. And when you’re flying solo, you can use your imagination to be whatever and wherever you want with whoever you want. Your imagination is your playground, where everything is allowed.

Fantasies and imagination can play an incredible role in enhancing our sexual life. Being able to step outside the bounds of reality and everyday situations is crucial for igniting our creativity, and creativity is essential for our erotic living. In the playground of your erotic mind, you’re free from the boundaries of your usual life experiences. Even the tiniest change can have an enormous impact on your sexual pleasure. So, close your eyes, open your mind, and give it a try…

Find your voice

Your voice can be a powerful form of communication during intimate moments. It’s another way to convey desire, pleasure, and arousal.

Women produce various vocalizations during sexual experiences, ranging from deep in the throat to through the nose, including moaning, groaning, screaming, whispering, heavy breathing, talking, or even silence. Find your own voice, and let it be heard.


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