Women's empowerment begins with taking ownership of their sexuality, starting with prioritizing their own pleasure.
No matter where you come from, what culture shaped you, or what religious and social codes you follow, we've all absorbed the same negative messages about our sexuality like, 'don't let anyone find out,' 'don't talk about it,' 'don't ask questions,' 'don't be curious.', Engaging in sexual activities always comes with warnings about what we might lose. You’re going to lose something, or you’re going to give it away to somebody, or someone’s going to take it from you. Dignity, power, virginity, or safety, It's always about loss, loss, loss…no wonder our sexuality is associated with fear, guilt and shame. Essentially, for most women sex is still taboo and forbidden territory.
It’s time to flip the script
Have you ever considered the possibilities of gain, growth, excitement, and exploration? What about experiencing joy and pleasure, physical satisfaction, emotional happiness? Has anyone ever encouraged you to explore and enjoy your sexuality, to trust yourself, trust your body, trust your emotions? Has anyone ever asked you what is good for you and what you really need?
Imagine if sex was the place where we feel most like ourselves, more than anywhere else. What if it’s where we truly come alive and are completely understood?
Sex shouldn’t feel like a performance, a competition, or a negotiation. You don't give or take anything. It is a shared creation between two people that takes place in the space between them, a space where you have the freedom to be unapologetically yourself.
Sex is not about knowing what we're doing. It is about knowing what we're feeling and learning to trust that.
Feel good with your desires
The heart of sexual desire is about our basic needs for connection, intimacy, touch, and a reflection of our own wholeness. I believe in the power of sex to heal, to offer us something profound. It can be a space where we feel more of ourselves and not less than.
Your desires are an essential part of who you are. Whether they come in waves or whispers, they are yours. Own your desires without apology!
Feel what you feel!
Sex isn’t just about physical sensations or acts. It's always emotional. Your emotions are natural and valid. We come to sex to touch what's beyond the surface, and that's what makes it beautiful.